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I want to know my flaws, so I can fix them, but it's so hard to know about them. I don't know how to change. I think that because someone says something, they don't actually like me or being around me. That leads to not trusting people. I feel like everyone I know is fake, and they talk about me behind my back. How should I move forward? Should I fix my flaws or shut the flaws out? I don't want anyone to think I'm a hypocrite or annoying. I also don't want to be told that flaws are part of our personalities, and we should all just dance under a rainbow of flaws. Because reality struck me; it's so hard not knowing how to help myself.

Mr. Bobcat:

Hi Permanent Marker!
I am sorry that you are having to go through this problem. This can be hard to deal with. I think that you should try to fix your flaws. Now I know that you might not trust your friends, but you need to find someone you trust. You can trust someone when they will do anything for you and you will do anything for them. First, find a friend that will do just that. Once you find that friend, then ask them if you have any flaws. Now they might say, oh you are perfect for who you are. You need to tell them you are wanting to change to be better and you want to improve. If they still continue to say that you are perfect the way you are, insist that they tell you your flaws. After they finally tell you, ask them how you can improve them. It’s not going to be easy to improve and find this friend, but once you do, your life will change drastically. I give you the best of luck on your endeavors. May the odds be ever in your favor!