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So me and my best friend got in a huge fight over thanksgiving break, and I was walking past her and one of my other friends talking, and the other friend goes, "Shhhh! She is coming!" so I know she is a fake friend. I also am on a team, and my whole team is so mean to me. I have always loved this sport and now I'm thinking of quitting because of the girls on the team. There is also this one girl who everyone thinks is perfect, and she made it, so all my friends hate me. I don't know what to think or do at this point!!
Dear idk who i am,
These are both really good questions, and here our our thoughts on them: 1) If you love the sport you play simply because you have fun playing it, then don't let anyone or anything stop you from doing something you love. If somethings going to get in your way then knock it over (not literally)! If you like the sport, but all the hate coming from everyone around you is stopping you from having fun or/and putting to much mental strain on you, then quit--there's no shame in quitting if it's for a good cause. 2) We would suggest to talk things over with them, not over text, not by way of other people, but face-to-face, and if you can talk some people into being there with you to be your support group, then that's even better. But if this friend is spreading rumors and gossiping about you then are they really your friend? 3) Finally, if the friend or friend group you are currently hanging out with are a bad influence on you or are holding you back, then leave them. Friends are important in life, but friends with their values and morals aligned with yours are more important. Good luck!