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So I always hung out with the same friend group, but none of them felt like a true friend. I have always wanted that one friend I could tell my secrets to small stuff like that. I get really jealous of everyone hanging out in the hall ways and cute pics that people make, so what do I do?

Mr. Bobcat:
I think every teenager has experienced this at some point, so let me just say, you are not alone. Feeling like everyone has better friends and more fun than you is a feeling many people know, but most of the time, that is not true. Every friend group has their flaws and insecurities, whether it’s apparent or not. That’s the hard thing about social media in this day and age--it always seems like everyone has a better life than you. It sets unrealistic expectations about life and friendship. If this mindset is holding you back from truly getting to know and appreciate the friends you have, I advise you to do that. Who knows--you may find the joy you’re looking for in the friends you already have. But if you genuinely feel like you’re not happy or don’t connect with your friends, my advice would be to put yourself out there, talk to people you don’t normally talk to, join clubs or social organizations that will help you meet new people, and hopefully find the people you’re looking for. Overall, just give it time, I can promise you that you will find your people, but the universe may just be holding them back until they can enter your life. Of course, that’s just my perspective. Good luck!