Person

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Our friend group is toxic. What do I tell the girl that it is her fault?

Mr. Bobcat:
Dear person,
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I am very sorry that this is happening in your friend group. If you are sure this girl is causing problems in the group, please take her aside and, in the kindest way, tell her the truth about how you see the group because of her actions. It is always important to be kind to everyone, but don't let kindness override honesty. With your group, be sure to talk with everyone, even if not everyone is the problem. Remember, communication is key to any relationship. If you feel that the situation within the group is beginning to progress in a negative way, you might consider stepping away from it. I believe that you will make the best decision for yourself and the group. You got this!

Sincerely,
Mr. Bobcat