Gandalf the Conflicted

What's your question?
I hang out with two different friend groups, and they both are awesome. But sometimes I have to choose between the two if they both are doing an activity or something, which group should I choose?

Mr. Bobcat:
Dear Gandalf the Conflicted,
I can relate to having multiple friend groups. It can be hard. I think you should set boundaries with both groups. Make sure they know your limits. For example, you could say, “These are my boundaries, and here’s why,” or a simple, “No Thanks.” If both groups want to hang out at the same time, I would go to whichever group asked you first. That’s what I do. It’s up to you who you want to be around. Think what influence they have on you. Surround yourself with people who will lift you higher.