Poppy

What's your question?
I have a very good friend who started dating this boy. I've heard very bad things about this boy, and I'm worried about my friend. Even talking to her family, she's been changing and getting in to trouble that she shouldn't be in. I want to tell her how I feel about this boy, but she seems happier with him then she's ever been with anyone else. I'm scared that she's changing for him for the worse. What do I do?

Mr. Bobcat:
If you are truly worried about her, tell her how you feel. Explain that you have noticed she has changed lately and be honest. If you are worried about her getting mad or upset with you, that's okay. You can't control the way she reacts. The important part is that she knows that you care about her, and you're trying to help. If you try your best to show that while talking to her about it, it could go better. Recognize her right to mess up, but when she does, make sure she knows that you are there to help her pick up the pieces, no matter what.